Да, че та с вами очень долго.
Ты НОА с номером для сына получила?

Does my child qualify for automatic citizenship under the Children Citizenship Act (CCA)?
Under the CCA, your child will automatically acquire U.S. citizenship on the date that all of the following requirements are satisfied:

* At least one adoptive parent is a U.S. citizen,
* The child is under 18 years of age,
* There is a full and final adoption of the child, and
* The child is admitted to the United States as an immigrant

How Does the Child Get a Passport Under the Child Citizenship Act?

You will need the following when the child applies for a passport:

* Proof of the child's relationship to the American citizen parent. For the biological child of the American citizen this will be a certified copy of the foreign birth certificate (and translation if not in English). For an adopted child, it is a certified copy of the final adoption decree (and translation if not in English);
* The child's foreign passport showing the Bureau of Citizenship and Immigration Services in the Department of Homeland Security (USCIS) I-551 stamp in the passport, or the child's permanent resident card (green card);
* Proof of identity of the American citizen parent(s)
* Passport application, passport photographs and fees. Go to Passport Services for forms and full instructions.

Я не поняла из ваших постов Ваш муж - отец Вашего ребенка? Она записан в свидетельстве о рождении как отец?
Если да - то вы можете подавать на паспорт или на сетификат о гражданстве по отцу.

О, прочитала, у вас по документам не доказывается, что папа это папа, в смысле как ты докажешь, что муж и есть тот человек, что там записан с твоей фамилией?